Lisette - Nope. The whole idea of fate is bullshit. Fate was just invented by people so they didn't have to feel shitty about stuff not going their way. 'Fate' gives people an excuse to give up on things. I don't believe in a grand plan. That's why I also don't believe in 'God's will'. Because I also think that saying that God just has other plans for you' is a cop out. There is no plan man. It's all about how fucking hard you want it and how hard you are willing to work at it. I feel the same about the concept of talent. Talent can be born, but it can also be made. I get pissed off when I hear about people that just 'fall in' to things. How things just happen for them with no real effort or intention. It pisses me off. There are so many people working hard for what they want and some people just get to do awesome stuff with out really wanting it that badly. Like Anna Paquin. She just went to an audition for a film as a kid - as heaps of kids do - and ended up winning a fricken Oscar. Even then she wasn't that keen to be an actor. Now look at her, a full on, well paid, Hollywood actor. Bitch. Kidding. I'm Kidding. I like her. Basically shit happens I reckon.
P.S: When I was younger I always just assumed I would have daughters. Never really thought about it or had a preference, just assumed, like it was a given. I have two boys!
Fate can suck my dick.
Sorry I'm in a bad mood.
P.P.S: Mariana is a lying liar. She totally believes in fate. She always says stuff like "I had this feeling like no, I shouldn't walk that way, I need to walk this way today" or "I just knew it wasn't for me" She is a closet hippy.